Of Love,Hate,and the Message from the Side of the River.
It is often said that loving someone is a difficult task.Though the feeling of loving someone and being loved by someone is definitely one of the most precious and beautiful feeling a human being can feel,however,to love someone with all your heart is a difficult task.Due to that,some of my friends refuse to fall in love,or get into a relationship,while some others fall in blindly without thinking about your own capability and the consequences of your action.Anyhow,love is rough and it rubs into your deepest wound sometimes.When you least expect it,it will turn into splinters and stabs you through the heart so hard that the wound cannot be healed merely by time.If loving someone is such a tedious thing to do,then in my opinion it is also correct to say that hating someone is equally hard.To be honest i hate to hate.Since hating someone is such a difficult task.We live in a world with all kinds of people.And it is impossible to be able to get along with everyone.There will always be one or two person in one's life whom is often refered to as the "Pain in the Ass" or the "Bastard".The truth is,feeling this way is inevitable and unavoidable.These people exists whether you like it or not.And either you live with it,or stay away from the and hate them.Why is hating someone such a tedious task?Firstly,you see the person in school or on the streets in town.You have to do whatever that is in your power to avoid his glance,so as to stay out of trouble.When you see that person your sight moves away and you do whatever you can to sit as far away from that person as possible.You gossip about that person,and about his bad points over and over again when more contructive and interesting things can be talked about and discussed.The wastage of saliva on a topic as such is stupid and idiotic sometimes.Once in awhile it is normal to speak of it.However,when you start to constantly remind yourself about how much hatred you have to that person is a tiring job indeed.I myself have lots of friends,and i met a lot of people throughout the course of my life.Some are extremely friendly people,some are easy to get along with,some are fun to talk to while others are just,like i said,a "Pain in the Ass".However,i try not to hate them as far as possible.Once in a while his/her name will be mentioned and you talk about about how you dislike him/her,fine,go ahead.Afterall,the word "Hate" is a powerful word.Like the word,"Love".They shouldnt be used often unless someone is really sure about wat he is feeling and saying.What is the definition for hate anyway?When you hate someone,do you have that person's personality?He's character?The way he walks,the way he talks,the way his eyes twitches everytime he laughs,that hidious laughter or when he sits with the girl that you like.There is bound to be something that you will like about that person and "hate" will then become an irrelavent word to use on that person.Hating is like loving someone,it is so hard.Though you dont feel good by hating someone but then again,it is really hard to do it.Time heals all,and i believe that through time this "Hatred" developed by one reason or another will diminish.Anyway,back to the more interesting things.My good friend Krishna messaged me yesterday at 10pm at the side of a river behind his house,and tells me that he is not living the life that he wants to.What is the common assumption here?That he is trying to commit suicide right.But of course,i knew he wasnt as stupid as that.(I think.)Triple A student plus the amount of money he has stashed up in his room,he has the perfect reasons not to kill himself.Oh well,at that time i wasnt thinking straight,so i assumed that he was thinking about something stupid.I tried to pursuade him but he denied that he was trying to kill himself,and that he was merely sleeping at the side of the river and was awoken by a dog.Anyway,so we talked on the phone till 12am and he told me that his parents are controlling him too much,and that he is not living the life that he desires.So i told him,"The truth is,nobody lives what they want to be,but to live and survive what they dont want to be,thats the kind of person you ought to be."Some food for thought. =)

Quotes of the Day:
Short Round,'I keep telling you, you listen to me more, you live longer!'

Willie,'You know how to fly, don't you?'
Indiana Jones,'Um, no. Do you?'

Willie,'Give me your hat.'
Short Round,'Why?'
Willie,'Because I got to puke in it!'

Willie,'There are two dead people in here!'
Indiana Jones,'There's gonna be two dead people in here! Hurry!'

Indiana Jones,'We are in trouble!'
Willie,'Trouble?What kind of trouble?'
Indiana Jones,'It's a long story. Better hurry up or you won't get to hear it.'

Indiana Jones,'Are you trying to develop a sense of humor or am I going deaf?'

[Indy and Short Round are exploring a cavern.]
Short Round,'Feels like I step on fortune cookie!'
Indiana Jones,'It's not fortune cookies. Let me take a look.'
[Indy lights a lighter to find bugs crawling all over the place.]
Short Round,'That no cookie!'
---'Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom'(1984)

Song of the Moment---Come Fly with Me by Frank Sinatra