For the Forbidden Words
There are things in life..that we shouldnt do without thinking it through..or words that shouldnt be said without thinking it over..especially when you are in a relationship...When you are in a relationship one of the greatest Nonos is to keep your promise and not make empty promises..its devastating to either side...I was lying on my bed listening to perfect 10 yesterday night..trying to get myself to sleep...heard this dedication on air from this guy to a girl..His gf i assume..he said,'I will love you forever..'.That really turned me off..so disgusted by it...not that what he said was bad or anything..its that...if i know this guy..i wouldve asked him,'What is love?do you know what is love?do you know how long is "forever"?Thats the rest of your freakin' life..are you REALLY going to love her for THAT long?'Made me think about a msg my goooood friend S.Khim sent me the other day..Its from a book..kinda forgot what it is..but this is what one of the character said,'"i just want someone who is going to love me forever."she says quietly,and i feel a sudden surge of sadness and fear for her.ForevER?There's something wrong with FOREVER.These days it seems to get shorter and shorter.That's the trouble with FOREVER..Blink and you miss it..' I think its really true..Forever is just a Necessity in a muchy phrase nowadays..people say it for the sake of saying it..end any much sentences with FOREVER or I LOVE YOU..it just doesnt make sense at all..are you going to keep your promise or are you just saying it for the sake of saying it..just to make he/her happy...in the end make an empty promise?Tell me are you going to love her foreveR?Yes?Prove it..the truth is:You cant...nobody can..Instead of saying I LOVE YOU why dont you show it instead of sticking that damn word to your mouth..after all action speaks louder than words..i can go around saying that i love someone without showing my love at all..it will never make sense that way..Show it..dont merely Say it..because it doesnt mean anything...Forever?How bout this...tell her that you are going to do yr best to treat her well everyday until tmr...then tmr you say the same thing again..THAT'S more realistic..How many times have you heard couples going,'I will love you forever' then breaking up in a few months..talking to you on the phone crying their hearts out..Think about it...there are words that shouldnt be used lightly..Peace out..

Song of the Moment---Into the West by Annie Lennox